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Love Needs Assessment

Assess the status of your love needs being met and the satisfaction with your current state of relationship. 

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Survey for the Women/ Feminine to answer:

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Rate each category on a scale of 1 - 5.

5 being the highest score and 1 being the lowest  

Please rate the following on how your love needs are being fulfilled by your partner. 

 

(Remember that the scores you receive from your partner and the scores that you give are fluid. They ebb and flow as circumstances, experiences, feelings and emotions are constantly shifting. These scores are not intended too ridicule or manipulate, they are simply a reflection of the current state of things and can show some areas of progress or areas that could use some attention.)

Question 2 of 14

Caring:

 

• "When a man shows interest in a woman's feelings and heartfelt concern for her well-being, she feels loved and cared for. When he makes her feel special in this caring way, he succeeds in fulfilling her primary need." - Men are from Mars/ Women are from Venus

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Question 3 of 14

Understanding:

 

• " When a man listens without judgement but with empathy and relatedness to a woman express her feelings, she feels heard and understood. An understanding attitude doesn't presume to already know a persons thoughts or feelings; instead, it gathers meaning from what is heard, and moves toward validating what is being communicated." - Mars/ Venus

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Question 4 of 14

Respect:

 

• "When a man responds to a woman in a way that acknowledges and prioritizes her rights, wishes, and needs, she feels respected. When his behavior takes into consideration her thoughts and feelings, she is sure to feel respected." - Mars/ Venus

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Question 5 of 14

Devotion:

 

• "When a man gives priority to a woman's needs and proudly commits himself to supporting and fulfilling her. A woman thrives when she feels adored and special. A man fulfills her need to be loved in this way when he makes her feelings and needs more important than his other interests." - Mars/ Venus

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Question 6 of 14

Validation:

 

• "When a man does not object to or argue with a woman's feeling and wants but instead accepts and confirms their validity, a woman truly feels loved. A man's validating attitude confirms a woman's right to feel the way she does." - Mars/ Venus

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Question 7 of 14

Reassurance:

 

• "When a man repeatedly shows that he cares, understands, respects, validates and is devoted to his partner,  her need to be reassured is fulfilled. A reassuring attitude tells a woman that she is continually loved." - Mars/ Venus

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Survey for the Men/ Masculine to answer:

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Rate each category on a scale of 1 - 5.

5 being the highest score and 1 being the lowest  

Please rate the following on how your love needs are being fulfilled by your partner. 

 

(Remember that the scores you receive from your partner and the scores that you give are fluid. They ebb and flow as circumstances, experiences, feelings and emotions are constantly shifting. These scores are not intended too ridicule or manipulate, they are simply a reflection of the current state of things and can show some areas of progress or areas that could use some attention.)

Question 9 of 14

Trust:

 

• "When a woman's attitude is open and receptive toward a man he feels trusted. To trust a man is to believe that he is doing his best and that he wants the best for his partner." - Mars/ Venus

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Question 10 of 14

Acceptance:

 

• "When a woman lovingly receives a man without trying to change him, he feels accepted. An accepting attitude does not reject but affirms that he is being favorably received." - Mars/ Venus

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Question 11 of 14

Appreciation:

 

• "When a woman acknowledges having received personal benefit and value from a man's efforts and behavior, he feels appreciated." - Mars/ Venus

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Question 12 of 14

Admiration:

 

• "To admire a man is to regard him with wonder, delight, and pleased approval. A man feels admired when she is happily amazed by his unique characteristics or talents, which may include humor, strength, persistence, integrity, honesty, romance, kindness, love, understanding, and other so-called old-fashioned virtues." - Mars/ Venus

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Question 13 of 14

Approval:

 

• "A woman's approving attitude acknowledges the goodness in a man and expresses overall satisfaction with him. An approving attitude recognizes or looks for the good reasons behind what he does." - Mars/ Venus

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Question 14 of 14

Encouragement:

 

• " A woman's encouraging attitude gives hope and courage to a man by expressing confidence in his abilities and character. When a woman's attitude expresses trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, and approval it encourages a man to be all that he can be." - Mars/ Venus

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